HOW TO SURVIVE A FRIENDSHIP WITH RIGHTS

Affective sex relationships are changing. Beyond the monogamous couple, there are different relational models that are increasingly present in our reality, although it is true that monogamy continues to be the most normalized option.
However, when it comes to ways of relating, a more widespread and recognized idea is that sex and commitment do not always have to go hand in hand. Thus, based on this premise, many people decide to have a solely sexual or friendship relationship with sexual benefits .

Sex and commitment do not always have to go hand in hand. Thus, based on this premise, many people decide to have only sexual or friendship relationships with sexual benefits .

Is it possible to have a friendship with the right to touch ? What we know as fuck friends and what happens when we mix sex and friendship?

These are some of the questions that may arise before embarking on the experience of friendship or fuck friends , or what is the same, having friends with whom you can have sex on a regular basis without there being a commitment to a relationship. .

The answer to the first question is yes, absolutely . The second question is more complicated to answer, so this post is dedicated to analyzing what happens in friendships with the right to touch and some keys that make their existence possible.

Friendship with the right What are the implications?

When it is decided to include sex in a friendship relationship, we understand that there is a certain trust between the people involved; In this case, we are referring to people who decide to turn their previous friendship around and include sex in it.
But it is not about having sex on a regular basis with that person or doing it once without more, but about deciding together the terms and conditions of this new stage in friendship.
Trust will give way to communication , with which you can set the course of the new relationship and know where you are treading. At the end of the day it is about something between two people, so the clearer things, the better.

Although there is no commitment to a couple or sexual exclusivity, erotic relationships always imply a bond . This bond has nothing to do with romantic love, but rather with aspects such as trust, communication, attraction or appreciation . If these conditions exist between two people who maintain a friendship, and also both parties agree to start a friendship, why not?

It is clear that one of the implications that weighs the most when it comes to having a friendship with rights is the change it implies for the friendship . Yes, it is clear that the friendship relationship is not going to be the same but that change does not necessarily have to be for the worse. Likewise, if at some point it is decided to eliminate sex from the equation, both parties can collaborate and communicate to resume the friendship at the point where it left off previously. Including sex does not mean that when you decide to end your friendship you have to break it.

Myths of  friend fuckers

Like the rest of non-normative relationships, friendship with rights or benefits is surrounded by prejudices and in the immense and complex world of social networks and blogs we can find content advising against its development. While it is true that a fuck friendship may not go well, no type of relationship is free of that risk . Good relationship management always brings us a little closer to its success, whatever the type.

Here are some of the myths that still spread about friendship with rights:

  • It can never turn out right
  • Friendship is spoiled
  • It is typical of unstable people
  • People need a stable relationship and end up as a couple

It may be that in most of the cases that we have heard about this experience, it was not a positive or a good idea, considering its long-term consequences. However, this is not caused by the fact itself, but by poor management .

Keys to managing friendship

Managing a loving relationship is rarely an easy task. Nobody is born knowing and, although in conventional relationships we are governed by a series of beliefs that allow us to flow from day to day (although they can also limit us at times, but that is another issue), when it comes to other types of relationships it may be more complex for us.

To survive a friendship with the right to touch, the first thing you should know is that you want to be in it, for sure . If you have any iota of doubt about it, it will be necessary for you to reflect and consider if you are interested in that relationship or are you looking for something different. Remember this: a fuck buddy is not a bridge to a stable relationship .

If you decide you want to do it and the other person agrees, it 's time to bring your communication skills to the fore . Talk about what you want and how you want it. In addition, setting rules and limits is essential for the development of the relationship. This prevents misunderstandings and painful and difficult-to-manage situations from occurring.

In short, to transform a friendship into a friendship with the right to touch, it is necessary that the people involved in it are very aware of the implications and the terms of their new relationship.

And you, would you dare to mix sex and friendship? Or do you already have your fuck buddy?

Fuck friends always end badly and spoil friendship

To survive a friendship with the right to touch, the first thing you should know is that you want to be in it, for sure . If you have any iota of doubt about it, it will be necessary for you to reflect and consider if you are interested in that relationship or are you looking for something different. Remember this: a fuck buddy is not a bridge to a stable relationship .
If you decide you want to do it and the other person agrees, it 's time to bring your communication skills to the fore .

What are fuck friends?

Folkfriends are those friends with whom you also have sex, without having a romantic relationship. The people who do, mutually decide to have sex without involving feelings.